There is a great amount of creativity and effort that goes into finding ways to sell books. Most of the time the effort is to try, through articles, media or blogs, to create some kind of pain.
Business books are notorious for this. They create more pain in an effort to make a need for their solution. Just run to the bookstore. You will never feel more inadequate in your life…you can’t sell, talk, think, write or manage correctly.
Emerging from the pop-business media dust cloud is a hot, new source of pain for business leaders – the Millennial.
There are organizations devoted to understanding millennials, managing millennials, politics for millenials, conferences devoted to millennials and ideas about how this group is going to rock the political structure of the United States.
My Gawd! It appears they will soon take over the world. Somebody alert Homeland Security.
So, what the H-E-(double hockey sticks) is a Millennial?
According to my trusty “Internet,” a Millennial is someone born between the years 1980 to 2000. Others have ’82 to ’97. Basically, it is anybody right now from the ages of 8 to 28.
I’m sure that if we got all those folks in a room that they would have the same views on politics, religious tolerance and work ethic. Yeah, right. I have a 9-year-old. When all of his friends of the same age get together, they can’t even decide on what movie to watch.
Here are some of the things that were so eloquently (do you speak sarcasm?) outlined about this generation on a recent 60 minutes spot:
- Tech-savvy. They like their iPods and Facebook. At times, this is
associated with a lack of emotional intelligence or face-to-face human interaction. Really? Hasn’t this been true of every generation? Isn’t the next set of whippersnappers a bit irritating because they adopt and use technology? Try this one, though. Go to your local mall or airport. Everybody is on a cell phone, Crackberry or something…most of them are in their 30′s and older – not millennials.
- Lazy. They want to set their own work schedule and have a family/work balance. They may be pushy in asking for this. They won’t be in the office at 5:30 or looking at emails at 8pm. Really? Good for them. Somebody had to do it. Would we rather them encourage companies that want blind, open-ended allegiance? I thought we were past that. Just because they may not work 60-plus hours a week does not qualify a person as lazy. Have we forgotten about the “slackers?” Didn’t depression-era adults view their kids as lazy? I see a pattern here.
- Narcissitic or praise-hounds. Blame Mr. Rogers. He told them that they were special. Now, they think everything should be handed to them. They need constant praise and attention. Really? What is more narcissistic than pointing out narcissism in younger people? Young people need immediate feedback, praise and attention. That is the name of the game. If you are not prepared for that, then you should not be in the business of raising children or managing employees. They want to learn the ropes and they need good mentors who understand.
- Environmentally conscious and religiously tolerant. These folks care as much about how a company or a group does business as much as what it does. The how is important. People need to be authentic and welcoming to all people. Really? This is partially due to the fact that the world has not beaten it out of them yet. Don’t worry. They will lose hope soon if we keep on telling them that they fit into some manufactured generational bucket.
Here’s the problem: They may want your advice on business or life questions, or they may disdain your advice. They may IM their parents in the middle of a meeting, or they may not even know who their parents really are. NEITHER of these situations makes them of a certain generation. All of them make them human and in a Western culture.
Generation Y.2.0 or Millennials or People-Who-Lives-on-the-Interwebs are not unique…not any more so than anybody else in your organization. For the time being, they are one thing – young. People of a certain age have certain concerns in their effort to create happy and productive lives.
Much of my cynicism at the whole division into generations has to do with the fact that every generation in my family falls into some kind of gulf. I was born in ’78. My father was born in ’54. Where is our category? We have nothing with great or boom or x in the title. Maybe I just feel a little cheated. Can I make one for myself?
Here is the best analysis that I have seen of the generations.
Really want to know how to relate to the younger people on your team? Ask yourself these questions:
- Do you remember what it was like to be young and unsure of things? Who did you turn to?
- Do you remember when your friends and parents were important? How did that feel?
- Do you remember the wonder that used to surround your life?
- Can you understand an individual on an individual basis?
As soon as we look for the ways that we are similar and not how we can separate, I think that we will come to a better place as humans.
HOMEWORK
As I said, there is a great amount of creativity that goes into creating ways to sell books, conferences and other materials. What if you took that same amount of creativity and found ways to understand people on your team as people? They have fears, values, joys, etc. As a leader, your role is to grow in understanding of people, and, not to buy into half-baked ideas on how to neatly categorize them.
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Jeremy Nulik, Creative Energy Officer (CEO), St. Louis Small Business Monthly



Jeremy…this is a great perspective to offer managers. There have always been differences between generations and it’s time to appreciate what every age brings into the workplace.
I’ve coached the younger generation with issues around work/life balance. Though they have been classified as ‘lazy’ so many of them are working as long hours of older generations.
What is important is for a manager to create a respectful workplace that provides challenges, growth and accountability for all. Let go of the stereotypes….
Pat
P.S. I’m a baby boomer and just had a 23 year old tell me that those over 40 are not flexible and they make generalizations about the younger employees. It wasn’t based on anything I said…I got a double laugh because over the hill use to be 30 and now it’s 40 and because her statement was a generalization about over 40 year olds.
Thanks Pat for your review.
Indeed, the stereotyping occurs both ways. I suppose that many younger folks in the workplace struggle with the James Dean “Rebel Without a Cause” temperament that the older folks “just don’t get it” as well. A dangerous stereotype. There is much we all have to offer each other, and we can make the most out of our contribution when we begin to value each other as humans.
I say this, of course, because I do this perfectly…hmmmm…not really, but I am making the effort.
I’ve spent about 6 years of semi-professional generational research. Those years have brought me to the conclusion that generationalism is an unnecessary psychosis placed on America by marketers looking for a new angle to sell their expertise. If one wants to play the game, then look to the works or works based on social historians Strauss and Howe. At least they present a half way disciplined and scientific look at the subject.
But we really need to stop trying to define a person by some suspect age-based stereotype.Instead we need to take the time to learn who that person really is.
If you really want to find your place in history, recognize that your birthyear gave you a unique viewpoint in time while looking to your elders for experience and to the youth for inspiration.
Wayne –
Thanks for your review and for weighing in with your expertise on the subject. Where were you when I tried to write this thing. I think your comments sum up my feelings on the subject of generationalism. This field is wrought with hacks. As for the individual, I think you give some great advice. Look to your elders for some wisdom and youth for energy.
I think that the best advice that I have seen is to understand that each person has something that you can learn. In keeping this mindset, you can drown out all the cookie-cutter psychology and open your mind. This tends to begin the process of breaking down walls for me.
Thanks Wayne.
-Lazy? More like bored out of our minds. I’ve already been labeled as a fast and efficient worker. If I spend half my time on Facebook, it’s because I’m not being challenged.We’ve been told for years that we can do anything. I think more people my age are experiencing a Quarter Life Crisis, because we almost feel lied to. It’s like finding out there is o Santa at age 24. I think this sense of restlessness will lead to high achievement though. I did the whole compromising my work schedule thing. Good thing my managers are all GenX. I’m pretty sure my Boomer supervisor thought I was lazy though, even though I work 80 times faster than her.
-Narcissistic- I have to disagree on this one. We are actually rather narcissistic. If we aren’t in charge of some huge corporation, or world-changing movement, somehow we’ve failed. GenXers coined the term Quarter Life Crisis, but Millennials perfected it. Check out http://www.qlc.com and witness all the sob stories of people my age.
I believe their are generational differences but I don’t think it’s fair to stereotype. I’ve read a ton of Howe & Strauss, and their assessments of each generation are balanced. Instead of ‘good’ and ‘bad’, ‘important’ and ‘frivolous’ generations, the talk about the unique and essential contributions of each generation. I think Millennials are a distinct generation, but you’re right we’re still being formed.
You must be GenX though because you say Really? a lot.
Just thought I’d throw one stereotype in there.